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Jack the dog had a rough start. For reasons we’ll never understand, his first owners treated him like crap. From what we can gather, young men who frequently wore baseball caps kicked him, and hit him with rolled up paper. He spent a year or so with these people before exiting out of the window of a moving car. Originally it was suspected he was thrown, but since he never had a fear of cars and actually loved to hang out the window, it’s possible he jumped. Either way, this was the best change that could have happened to him.

Through concerned people looking out for his best interest, he came to live with a lesbian couple. As scared as he was of men, this was a perfect fit. He spent his first three days with them hiding behind the refrigerator, and a good deal of time longer than that only eating when hand-fed. He slowly grew more comfortable in this new setting, and had something resembling a normal life. He still wasn’t happy to see men, and was terrified of paper or fast moving feet, but he had two people who he felt safe with, and a warm bed to sleep in.

He had lots of happy days with those two, but eventually the couple broke up. Jack went to stay with Kristy, and Nishi started a new life with me. Jack became an outside dog. I first met Jack when Nishi and I took a trip down to see her family. On the way back up, we stopped by Kristy’s to grab some boxes of books. Jack was there, and could hardly believe Nishi had returned. I remember watching them feel each other out, making sure the other hadn’t changed. He was overjoyed to see her again, and they played in the yard before we left. Jack never played with toys or balls like other dogs, he liked to be chased. He was incredibly fast, and would literally run circles around people or other dogs he played with. They ran for a short while, until the time came to say goodbye. Nishi got back in the car, and we started to drive off. Jack ran behind the car, not wanting to let her go again. It was heartbreaking, and I’m impressed to this day that Nishi was able to hold it together and bring him back to the yard.

I saw him again at the airport in Hartford. Kristy was joining the Army, and Jack couldn’t come along. Jack endured a long plane ride filled with lots of strange men and sounds, but came out the other side thrilled to see us. At least, thrilled to see Nishi. He danced circles around her, telling her exactly how happy he was to see her again. He wasn’t sure about me yet, but he was happy enough to let it slide. He didn’t calm down until we got to bed that night. Jack sleeps under the covers – it’s his favourite place. If he’s under a blanket with someone he trusts, he is perfectly content. He usually sleeps between or against someone’s legs, and presses himself in until it’s just right.

He enjoyed his time with us, in our third floor apartment that didn’t allow dogs. He still didn’t like strange men, and loud noises still scared him, but his days were very happy. As fall approached, I saw him sitting in the kitchen one day, shivering. He was a short-haired southern dog after all, so I got him a sweater to keep him warm through the winter. His sweater became his security blanket, and in the cooler months he wore it everywhere.

In March of this year we noticed him starting to favour one of his front legs. He was a very neurotic dog, and would often lift a leg when he walked on wet ground. When he stopped putting weight on it, we brought him to the vet. We couldn’t find anything stuck in his paw and nothing seemed to be broken, so we put him on bed rest to see if it would heal. During this time, we carried him up and down the stairs to go outside. He didn’t put any more weight on that foot, and we brought him back to the vet. We saw a specialist, who told us it was likely a tumor in his shoulder.

Nerve sheath tumors are apparently not uncommon in dogs. They’re also very hard to treat. To operate on it, his leg would need to be amputated, and the recurrence rate of this cancer was relatively high. If we went through with the operation, he would have some months to heal and deal with the pain, learn to use three legs, and it was possible if not probable that the cancer would return.

We didn’t want to put him through this, and though he barely used his front right leg, he did just fine. I have no doubt that if we had operated he would have adjusted to life on three legs just fine. He didn’t let it bother him, and carried on as if nothing had changed. Eventually, his leg did start to hurt him, and he let it show. Sitting in Nishi’s lap, he cried and cried. He cried through the night, and generally wasn’t feeling well.

We had Jack put to sleep yesterday, and we miss him dearly. These are obviously only the details of his life, since the affection and love he showed each day can’t be described to anyone who didn’t directly receive it. We know that we spared him a hard drawn out end, and that we did him a favor by opting for sooner than later, but it’s hard to stomach. I’m sure it would be much easier for us if he was in obvious pain, but he had many more good moments than bad, and we made what we think was the better choice for him. I feel honored to be among the people he loved.